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Dr Penni Russon's avatar

I think ‘bad children’ is a kindness. It’s as exhausting to be a good child as it is to be a finished adult. Both are invented constructs to make us feel like we can’t feel, like we must be guided by rationality instead of emotions. I think she is saying that she is publishing good books for children with big untethered authentic feelings. Whenever people say ‘is she a good baby?’ What they really mean is does she sleep? (Good) Does she cry? (Bad.) It is a terrible thing to ask a parent. I also think she believes you can be an unfinished adult who still has a living child inside you. It reminds me a lot of C.S. Lewis. “When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”

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Ariel Dovas's avatar

Speaking of The Little Mermaid movie ruining the name Ursula . . . thank you for not mentioning the name of the Little Mermaid.

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